Like it or not online dating is here and it is here to stay. Online dating for guys can be a very time friendly way to meet women. Every day thousands of guys log in to their account to either check if they have kisses, winks or mail or to send kisses, winks or mail.
It is no surprise that some guys are very successful when it comes to online dating while others pay hundreds may be even thousands of dollars and make no progress. Our online dating package has been specifically designed for guys who are currently using online dating site and want more success. The package covers every aspect of online dating to ensure your profile gets more clicks as more clicks equal more dates.
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I think that it is very important to understand online dating . At Learn To Approach we believe that meeting quality women online is one of the harder ways of meeting women it is a complete different skill set than approaching women face to face.
There are a lot of positives when it comes to online dating, for example you can access your account during the day, if you see a beautiful girl that you would not have the courage to approach face to face you can contact her, the number of women that you can contact in one day is entirely up to you, you don’t need any confidence with women but the main advantage is you can think about your answers if you are communicating with email.
Unfortunately there are some negatives as well for example is the girl you are talking to the same one that is in the picture?, all you have is words on a page so it is very hard to show your personality, it not done correctly it can be very expensive, girls get bombarded with emails, winks and kisses.
The most important negative to understand when it comes to online dating for guys is highly competitive, the number of guys versus the number of women on these systems is mind blowing.
I have known girls who daily get 50 different emails from guys, if you were one of the guys that sent an email to her it would be like standing in a room with 49 other guys and one girl.
Online dating is a skill, a skill we have spent many years mastering.
If currently you are using online dating to meet someone, or thinking about jumping online being able to correctly “market” yourself is the key. If you find self-marketing a bit scary or overwhelming we can help!
Every client I have ever worked with has told me the hardest part of online dating is writing a profile that is eye catching and stands out from the rest! Self-promotion is the key to online dating, but there is a fine line between self-promotion and boasting.
Successful online dating consists of three sections, your profile photo, your header, then the actual profile, our extensive experience in this area shows women will look at your profile in that order as well.
When it comes to online dating you have under 3 seconds to capture a girls interest and make her want to find out more about you by clicking on your profile and reading your profile. It doesn’t matter which online dating service you are using search results are normally shown 10 to a page with your primary profile picture being displayed or highlighted in some manner.
Profile Picture: What is your profile picture saying about you? Is your profile picture recent? Is it clear? What’s in the background? The picture you have chosen to use for your profile is the most important part of your profile. May be its the reason so many girls choose to use a photo that was taken at a wedding or a black tie event instead of the time she was going to the gym.
Since your profile picture is the most important part of your profile we can save you time by helping you choose which photo you should use on your profile. When we have chosen a photo we will perform some editing for you.
We can do simple editing for example red eye removal, cropping, making photo sharper right up to removing people from the photo or changing the background color.
Header: The next section to creating a successful profile is the header you use.When it comes to your header so many guys waste this space typing things like “Thought I would give this a go” or “I’m the guy you have been waiting for” or even worse “Finding it hard to meet anybody socially so here I am” yes these are all actual headings that some guys are using. No women will respond to headings like these. When it comes to online dating girls do actually read what you write while most guys will just look at the photo and make a decision.
The heading is an important part of your profile, we will help you create a heading that will catch her attention.
Your Profile: Once a woman finds your profile photo attractive and header catchy, logical the next step for her to take is to open your dating profile to read it so she can find out more about you. This is the point where most guys go wrong. If you are using online dating your profile should contain 4-5 paragraphs covering who you are and what you are looking for.
You don’t need to fit your whole life story into this section, leave something to talk about when you finally meet up with her, also women love a little mystery.
Currently what is your profile description saying about you? Is it the same as every other guy’s? So many guys profiles will show that they have low self-confidence or self-esteem, the spelling and punctuation is lacking, they come across needy, they try to use self-deprecating humor normally badly and their profile looks like every other guys profile.
When it comes to your profile it needs to be unique, it needs to be written to suit who you are and what kind of women you are looking for. If you are looking for an athletic girl wouldn’t it make sense to put you are an athletic guy?
For so many guys online dating can be very frustrating. As our video showed the average success rate with online dating is around 5%. Let Learn To Approach save you time and money with our online dating package.
Quite simply our clients come to us because they want to be in this 5%. For many years now Learn To Approach has been regarded as the experts when it comes to online datingsuccess. For this reason clients from all over the world come to us for assistance.
Everything we show and teach you comes from our experience with the online dating world. We did not get our experience from reading books about online dating we gained our experience from setting up online dating profiles, find out what works and getting rid of what does not work. At some stages we have had over 50 online profiles running at once.
As with all of our courses we not only show you what works we explain to you why it works.
We have found that when a client first comes to us he mentions one or more of the below 6 reasons for seeking our services, what about you, do any of the below sound familiar?
Sending emails but not getting replies?
If you are constantly sending emails, but getting no replies you are just burning money. Let Learn To Approach show you the correct way to email so she will have to reply.
Have a great online relationship but when you meet she just wants to be friends?
Most guys find that they have a great relationship with a woman online, but when they meet she decides she only wants to be friends, we can stop you falling into the friendship zone with her.
Getting no traffic to your profile?
Why go to all of the trouble of setting up a profile that nobody will see? We can show you how to correctly construct a profile that will be viewed.
Receiving emails but when you reply you hear nothing?
Most guys get very excited when they receive an email from a woman, they quickly email her back but hear nothing, we can show you why this happens.
Is she a no show online or in person?
Have you made a date with a woman either online in or person and she has not shown up, we can show you how to never get in the position of being stood up.
Can’t move from the chat room to a real date?
Ever met a woman online but you cant seem to get a face to face meeting? We will show you how to quickly get a face to face date or just move on.
Our online dating package not only covers all of the above in detail, we show you how to make the above problems a thing of the past, so you can concentrate on which girl you would like to date. At the completion of our course you will be spending less time emailing back and forward and more time getting to know her face to face.
Remember the idea of online dating is to spend as little time as possible online and more time face to face.
Let us help you save time, frustration and money. We do not offer a one size fits all solution, to ensure your online dating success our online dating package is designed on a case by case basis.
The idea of internet dating is to go from the net to a face to face meeting as soon as possible with our help you will go from the net to dating in a lot quicker time by helping you sort out the flakes from the serious people. We can talk about what you want to talk about when it comes to your profile and your online dating success.
Make sure you are using the correct online service.
With so many options available to you these days we make sure that you are using the most relevant online dating service that will suit your needs.
Find out more about you..
We want to get to know you, your situation and what results you are wanting to get from using online dating. These calls can be done via skype or to your cell at a time that suits you.
Review your profile picture.
We can help you select the right picture for your profile. If needed we can also give your picture to our designers to make small edits and touch ups.
Review or rewrite your profile..
In a recent study found that under 30% of guys read a woman profile they make their decision based on the woman’s picture while over 90% of women read a guys entire profile. What does your profile say about you? We can edit or even rewrite your profile.
Make you stand out..
As most online dating sites have a ratio of over 50 men to 1 woman, you need to be able to stand out. We can give you tips to make sure you are noticed.
Review your previous communications..
We go through emails you have sent and emails that you have received to find out why you are not getting replies. We will also show you how to move from the chat room to a date.
When you are ready to stop wasting time and money and start having more online dating success click below.